Best Ways to Set a Life Goal

Setting a long term life goal for yourself can be hard to do. After all, who knows what might happen along the way? And who knows what kind of success and setbacks you’re going to face? It’s this kind of fear that often prevents people from shooting for what they really want.  That needs to change.

 Because setting a life goal can be done in a variety of ways, depending on the kind of person you are, you’re going to have a process that differs from that of those around you. But if you’re just not sure where to start with your goal planning, here are the best ways to make sure you come up with a plan that sticks. 

 

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Set a Large Goal, Then Plenty of Small Ones

 You’ve got an end goal in mind, right? Before you get there, you’re going to have to achieve lots of other things. You’re on a journey, and in the same way you’d use villages/towns to mark how far along you are before reaching your destination, you need to count every single achievement

 So, before securing that job, you need to finish college first. Maybe then you need to get into grad school? And what grades will you need for either of these goals? Think of these as stepping stones. 

Rely on Your Support Network

A support network is essential when you’ve got something to work towards. You need people around to hold you accountable, and ensure that you’ve completed your to-do list for each week. And a support network can be built out of friends, families, co-workers, and even online.

 And if you feel like you don’t have much of a support network right now, things can change! You can work with professionals such as Glitter for the Soul, or you can start to network out to other people like you who want to reach for the same thing. You’re in competition with each other, yes, but you’re all in the same boat and know how it feels. So reach out, and get talking, and make some like-minded friends! 

Always Return to Your Plan

Make sure you’re always coming back to the original plan, and revising it as needed. Even when you’ve got something down on paper, it’s not set in stone. The world changes around you, and you have to keep up, so let your plan be flexible. 

To do this, simply reword some of your small goals here and there, or reach out to different people than those who may have been originally planned. Just make a few changes that better reflect where you are right now, and your five year plan will stay much more relevant. 

Setting a life goal is a big step, but you’ll have plenty of baby steps to follow along the way. Don’t let such a prospect hold you back.  If you want something, this is how to go for it! 

Maria Olsen